Well, here we go.
Blonde in Greece.
Before my flight to Kos, I've heard a lot of comments, like: "dye your hair in more brown colour, they will rape you there, they love blondes..." Semi-serious, but still ... Stereotypic.
And, of course, as more or less educated person I don't belive in such valuating. To be honest,
while being still in Poland I was laughing at this.
I mean, Greece is still in Europe, right (like it makes a difference)? So they are civilised. Or not?
First we saw our flat. Here a little explanation: one apartament contains of one room with two beds, one kitchen with one bed and bathroom. No lighbulbs, no cleaning facilities, no shower tube. And guess who was sleeping in the kitchen...
On the left side we have bathroom door, the white door behind me is to go outside. My roommates (two ukrainian girls) Were placed in another room on your left more in the front (you can't see it on this picture) I lie in my bed here.
We lived with about 50 people in one block of flats - also workers from our hotel. Mostly men in theirs 19's to 40's.
You are probably wondering why I show you details of my accomodation while this post is titled "Virtual rapists". i'll try my best to explain.
First impression
After crying whole first evening about our miserable situation, tired as hell after journey, we (me, Valeria and Lera) decided to go and buy some basic facilities to our new home. At the nearest shop we met some of our co-workers. They were extremely polite offering help - giving us drinking water, changing lightbulbs, giving food.
Did I mention that I'm educated person and I don't belive in stereotypes?
Well, according to my observation, our brain can very quckly adapt to new enviroment but it base its valuating on something we already knew before about this particular enviroment.
And what did I know back then? Only stereotypes...
So first question my suspicious brain asked me was: "Why do they help us?" Why they are giving us stuff for free?". Unfortunately I couldn't resist on asking how much did these things cost because I wanted to pay for them in order to not to have any obligations or debts.
Well, shit.
It was the worst thing i could say. Some of guys went back to theirs apartments, offended. Some of them was laughing with my naive attitude. Significant question was asked: "You really think we are all potencial rapists here?"
And because I'm so honest I answered "Yes". Then.
But now, when I at least know that I know nothing, I would say that greek people, does not matter which sex, are keen to help everybody. In Poland is somebody helps you, it means that he wants something from you in return.
People, please, give up stereotypes! Because even if you think you are beyond them, they are still inside you! Just don't say it out loud. For everybody who doesn't know them yet.